New research shows that using digital devices to calm children down impairs development of emotional regulation mechanisms. So another one on digital use by kids - but what age are we talking about? I have written before about various impacts of digital devices, social media use, and gaming but mostly by adolescents. This study looked at preschool children in Canada, that is ages 2-5. Are kids that young using digital devices?! Well, it now seems to be the default parenting mechanism in many families - I am also surprised by how parents give very young children digital devices to entertain them. But this particular longitudinal study by Konok et al. (a collaboration between Canadian and Hungarian researchers) looked at using digital devices to calm children down - using them as cures for the dreaded children tantrums common at this age. And does this work? Well, kind of. The problem is not whether a digital device can calm a child down temporarily but what it does to their emotional regulation system. This is what they tracked over time. And what is the impact? They followed up a year later after giving parents multiple questionnaires. And the bad news is that using digital devices to calm children down has a longer-term negative impact, specifically in the children showing poorer anger and frustration management. This is in notable contrast to positive parental interventions i.e. speaking to the children and guiding them to better manage their emotions. Basically giving kids digital devices lowers their emotional regulation abilities so just perpetuates the problem - or makes it worse in older ages. Positive parental interventions are the most effective method. So good ‘ole parenting skills are best! Yes, probably no surprise, but certainly good to know what the negative impacts of digital devices are at this age. And a good reminder to use those good ’ole parenting skills. Our results suggest that parents of children with greater temperament-based anger use digital devices to regulate the child's emotions (e.g., anger). However, this strategy hinders development of self-regulatory skills, leading to poorer effortful control and anger management in the child. by ANDY HAYMAKER Photocredit: Unsplash There are 2 ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it" Edith Wharton by Suzie Doscher, Executive Coach in Switzerland focusing on Personal Development. Self Help Author since 2014 Photo credit: Pexels Get in touch for a complimentary chat.
“It Is Not What Happens To You, But How You React to What Happens” Epictetus, Greek Stoic philosopher. “The Only Moment In Which You Can Truly Be Alive is the Present Moment” Thich Nat Hanh, Vietnamese Thiền Buddhist monk. “The Things We Love Are Like the Leaves on a Tree: They Can Fall at Any Moment with the Gust of Wind” Marcus Aurelius, Roman emperor from 161 to 180 and a Stoic philosopher. To me it says a lot that these wise words have been around for a long time. They have been changed to reflect the present time. I read how they surface as if they are revelations - something new. They are new to the new generations who are learning now which is the beauty of these wise words. New books surface with the same information and will continue to do so. The underlying wisdom and advice for life, will remain the same. How it is quoted changes to adapt with the times but not the meaning. by Suzie Doscher, Executive Coaching focusing on Personal Development Photo credit: Pexels So are we back to the old, sceptical, observation, of “if you believe it works, it will work”?
Yes, indeed. The placebo effect is indeed powerful and a little mysterious. Many people put it down to “just being in your head”, simply “psychological”. But thoughts are made of chemical interactions in your brain - so a biological process which in turn influences your biology in other ways. So, don’t underestimate the placebo effect - for if it does work, it does indeed work. The best place to start with this topic is by understanding what you can gain from letting go of the past.
We tend to focus on what might be lost and frequently overlook what the benefits of taking this step are. Try to imagine a life already free of images and thoughts from the past inhibiting you in the present. Imagine how it would feel if you maintained positive memories, ones that energized you rather than ones that drained you. Carrying negative aspects of the past with you prevents you from feeling and knowing what the present has to offer. Sometimes you may be so entangled in old problems that you cannot see the changes that are necessary to make your life better. For this you will need to “clear out the deadwood” and make space for the new, that is: your life now. You know that the past is the past; nevertheless you are still caught up in it through strong emotions. Intellectually you understand what is going on but somehow your emotions do not. Some thoughts to motivate you to move on: New research shows that walking in nature is more effective than walking in urban environments at restoring attention and cognitive control.
Nature is good for our health and brain: you have reported on this before, right? Indeed, I have reported multiple times on how nature has been shown to be beneficial to all aspects of health and brain functioning: This is another piece of supporting evidence by Amy McDonnell of the University of Utah. But also interestingly this is an intervention study. What do you mean intervention study? Well, many of these studies have looked at correlations between nature and positive health. But this does not disentangle cause and effect. For example is it the lower stress of those who live closer to nature not nature itself - similarly is it walking in general or walking in nature that is better. So, in this study the researchers gave a task then prescribed two different interventions and measured effectiveness - also using EEG brain measurements. Ok, so what was this study? Amy McDonnell and David Strayer conducted an interesting experiment and one that is more robust than many other similar studies. They ended up collected data on 92 individuals (which is larger than most similar studies). These individuals first of all conducted an attention task to help deplete attention reserves. This was a simple but mentally tiring task of counting backwards from 1000 in steps of 7. Starts of easy but when you get going it becomes tiring quickly and attention quickly slips. They then did a standardised attention test to measure the level of depletion before going for a 40-minute walk. And here lies the difference: about half walked a route through nature, and the other walked through a more urban landscape across parking lots and building. The routes were matched in length and elevation gain. Oh, and what happened? Well, first after this they were wired up to EEG measurement equipment - electrodes on your scalp measuring brain activity. And then given another standardised attention test. Given that they had had 40 minutes to recover with activity (which we know to be good) you may wonder if there was any difference at all? Keep up to date with fascinating research updates and reviews - made readable. Upgrade for more and exclusive content. Upgrade to paid Was there? Yes, there was. There wasn’t much of a difference between alertness and orientation but those that walked in nature showed improved executive control and this was matched by increased activity in the prefrontal cortex - responsible for higher order executive function. Participants also subjectively rated themselves as more recovered. In short the walk in nature was much better than the urban walk. So, it seems to be something specific to nature. What? Yes, the above study, and many others, show that nature itself is what improves executive function (above and beyond rest and exercise), and health, and well-being in general. Many researchers assume it is something baked into our DNA. We after all developed in nature and have this primal connection to nature. But there are all sorts of visual cues and smells - the chemicals released by plants have also been shown to have a positive impact on health and immune system function. It is probably all of the above combined but in short - nature is good for your brain and health. So get into nature! Indeed, another paper recently out by Makram et al. also shows that people in urban areas with more green have better mental health. So get access to green whenever you can But also as a clear strategy to improve cognitive function. A few minutes between meetings with a walk in a park will greatly help your cognitive function - not to be underestimated! by ANDY HAYMAKER Photocredit: Suzie Doscher Good Reasons to Master the Art of Living in the “Now”, Being in the Moment / Going with the Flow23/4/2024
The message is not new yet being in the present, living in the 'now' is not easy to master when life is difficult. It seems odd that we do not just naturally live in the Now. After all, almost everyone would agree that the present moment, the Now, is all we have. The fact remains that most people do not live in the present moment and have to learn how to do so. Here are a few of the reasons I continue to master living in the moment:
By mastering the art of living in the moment, you are taking good care and being very kind to yourself. That alone should make it worth the effort. Remember: “Do not encumber your mind with useless thoughts. What good does it do to brood on the past or anticipate the future? Remain in the simplicity of the present moment”. By Suzie Doscher, Professional Executive Coach focusing on Personal Development, Native English Speaking, 18 years experience in the field of coaching. Photo credit: Pexels The message is not new yet being in the present, living in the 'now' is not easy to master when life is difficult. For support contact me
Self-awareness involves understanding your personality, behaviours and behaviour patterns. It is all about getting to know yourself and what makes you who you are.
Raising your self-awareness starts with self-reflection and observing your behaviour and reactions. Self-reflection can be a powerful tool on its own. Time spent exploring this is time well worth spent. Raising your self-awareness can involve observing yourself for ca 2 weeks. Make notes of what you witness:
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Suzie Doscher is a Professional Executive Coach focusing on Personal Development. Located in Zurich, Switzerland. Her approach to personal development is practical and successful.
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