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In my own life one of the important realizations was that balance is possible and it was mine if I wanted it. What followed was a fair amount of self-reflection, openness, and honesty with myself. Setting aside time to explore my definition of balance, by questioning what was missing and what I was already doing successfully, was time well spent. Since then, I have a good grasp on the various elements of day-to-day life. For me personally knowing my heart and mind are working together is what keeps me balanced. The sense of calm, of being grounded and clearheaded, motivates me to keep my life in balance.
Choosing to create balance will reflect in these six areas of your life:
Most of us spend a large part of the day working. Making sure the remaining hours offer some form of nurturing and reenergizing is vital. There is a difference for single people versus married, with or without children, whether you travel, live internationally and interculturally. Choose the area most in need of attention and nurturing.
The groundwork of living in balance is knowing yourself. For this it helps to be connected to your core values. Think of them as the “bricks in your foundation.” Reconnecting with your values and aligning your life with them is vital to finding balance.
Your values are what make you tick. They show you how to prioritize, what is important to you, what allows you to feel fulfilled. Examining my own core values, I realized how vital “open communication” and “nature” are to me. When both are present in my life, I feel a sense of balance.
A small selection of examples of core values is: freedom, honesty, trust, ethics/integrity, financial security, passion, growth, acknowledgment, recognition, communication, challenge, empathy. The list is long.
Core values are individual and may be described with whatever words work best for you. These are examples only.
Six motivators to encourage you to achieve a more balanced life:
The benefits of creating balance reach beyond you and your life; the people around you are positively impacted as well. How does it sound to feel happier, wake up with energy, and plan your day realistically to achieve what you set out to do? There might be obstacles along the way, but when you are balanced your coping mechanisms kick in, you deal with the issue and get on with the day. This work might feel repetitive, this is because it is! Changing and reprogramming long-term behavior patterns require repetition and practice in order for them to be sustainable.
The decision is yours to take – You are the CEO of your life.
An exercise from Suzie Doscher's self-coaching book: Balance - A Practical Handbook for Life's Difficult Moments.
by Suzie Doscher, Executive Coach focusing on Personal Development - Self Development,
Self-help Author since 2014.
Photo credit: Unsplash
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