by Suzie Doscher, Professional Life and Executive Coach
I have witnessed all too often with friends, family, clients, and of course in my own life, how easy it is to feel you are going in circles or banging your head against the same wall. It feels like your ability to move forward is blocked. You keep ending up in the same place, repeating the same patterns.
A coaching client of mine never quite achieved the goals he set himself. Despite taking proactive steps, he still ended up going around in circles. On one level he believed in the success of his project, yet deep down inside a little voice kept repeating, “What is the point? You will not succeed anyways”.
In his case, the little voice was his “impatience”, which kept him going around in the same circle. Instead of taking a little extra time and dealing with issues that appeared, he would push forward, overlooking them until they had accumulated to a point where they blocked the success of the project. We reframed this limiting belief “Things have to happen quickly in order to be successful” to a healthier one " Taking more time and care allows project to come together more easily". The result was more patience, which lead to a successful outcome of his project. ... Click 'Read More' below
Suzie Doscher is a Professional Executive Coach and Life Coach focusing on Personal Development. Located in Zurich, Switzerland her practical, common sense and enabling approach to personal development has drawn clients to her from across the globe. Suzie